Code of Conduct

Bocanegra Club members are elegant, respectful and generous. We conduct ourselves in a tasteful manner while exploring our sexual desires.

To maintain a safe environment, our members are expected to conduct themselves with dignity and show respect to one another. Our golden rule is consent. Before we touch, we always inquire first. Anyone who violates this will be banned permanently from the club. 

​You must read and agree to the code of conduct below before applying for membership. These are not just arbitrary principles, they are the roadmap to sexual liberty and will manifest the finest experience for all members.

  • Always ask before you touch, just say "may I join?" or speak to another member before they start playing.

  • We require saints to wear a dark suit, tuxedo or dark pants. Must be business formal.  Ties / bow-ties are optional. 

  • Goddesses may wear a dress, lingerie, pants, blouse or skirt. No jeans please.

  • If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, just say “no thank you” or inform someone from our crew.​

  • No cell phones or cameras are allowed.​

  • No illegal substances are allowed at our masquerades.

  • No weapons (firearms, pepper spray etc.) are allowed at our masquerades. We ensure Goddesses and Saints are safe and protected under supervision of our staff.

  • If you don’t know how to behave, or can’t handle your drinking, you will be asked to leave. No exceptions.​

  • Don’t drink and drive! You are responsible for your own safety and your guests.​

  • No outside food allowed.

  • All rooms shall remain unlocked and open at all times. 

  • Money exchange of any kind is not tolerated at our events.​

  • You are responsible for your personal belongings.

  • You are responsible for your health and wellness. 

  • You may bring your own toys and props for play. You are responsible for your belongings.

  • Privacy must be respected by all members and employees of Bocanegra Club.​

  • You agree not to disclose any information of Bocanegra Club members and employees to any media.

Anyone who violates the code of conduct will be banned from the club.

We reserve the right to refuse anyone who does not meet the clubs standards.